Here is a three word question: “Am I beautiful?”
This is so simple on the surface.
Yet when a girl or woman asks that of themselves, then watch
out!
The female wants the affirmation of a positive reply.
But while the answer, “Yes you are beautiful.” is simple it
is not easy to get.
It seems that girls want their father and mother to tell
them they are beautiful.
Also they want their female friends and especially certain males.
The search for positive answers continues as a woman.
This quest for beauty fuels the several industries in our
economy.
Consider cosmetics, hair care, fashion, diet, fitness, cosmetic
surgery and more.
The question “Am I beautiful?” can be sometimes related to
the following questions.
“Am I acceptable?”
“Am I lovable?”
“Am I sexy?”
“Am I cool?”
“Am I hip?”
“Am I feminine (enough)?”
To complicate matters further the following internal issues can
be involved.
Insecurity
Low self esteem
Shame
Pride
Envy
Jealousy
Lust
The ideals of beauty are on all around the females and
males.
These are found in all kinds of places.
Billboards
Magazines
Movies
TV shows
Fashion shows
The images of beautiful women that appear in print have been
digitally retouched.
There are online videos that show how many subtle changes
make a huge difference.
So the flawless ideal that is presented is not humanly
possible.
Plus there are many more layers and layers of complications.
All this springs from the three word question, “Am I
beautiful?”